Dear Jim,
I am deeply sorry that you have been affected by substance use disorder in any form. Having lost my Zach many years ago to a heroin poisoning, I understand the immense pain and confusion that comes with such a loss. I remember feeling the heavy hand of stigma and shame weighing down upon my family and me. So much so, that when people asked how my son died, I simply said, “He was sick.” Little did I know back then that I was actually telling the truth – substance use disorder is now fully recognized as a medical condition by the doctors and scientific community.
Jim, it took me a long time to grieve, and I am still grieving. However, after I started my website and began sharing my story of loss with others, I felt a heavy weight lifted from my soul. I realized Zach had a psychological problem, and had I known then what I know now, he might still be here. By creating the website and dedicating myself to advocacy, the healing process gained momentum, and I was able to expand my efforts. This allowed me to move forward without stigma, just as if he had passed from cancer or another disease.
What I want to tell you, Jim, is that by sharing your story, you will not only help your family and yourself navigate the grieving process, but you might also become an advocate. Why? Because by sharing, you are demonstrating to others that you, too, are stepping into the light of knowledge and faith during your grieving journey. You will inspire others to heal, just as those who have already shared their stories have inspired you.
Please visit our organization’s website and click on the “Stories” tab. Follow the directions provided, which will guide you to our email address. Remember, by doing this, you are contributing to healing the world.
Peace and love,
H. Lee (Harris Lee Insler)